Relationship Myths Busted: Increase the Depth of Your Intimacy ๐ซ and Improve Your Sex Life ๐ฅ๐๐ฆ๐
This page explores some of the most rampant, but subtle, myths that pervade our relationships. These myths keep us from getting our needs met, keep us disconnected and in conflict, and can even lead to break up or divorce. Once youโve examined each myth you will have a greater understanding of what you need to be completely fulfilled in your relationship and how to ask for it. Youโll have a better understanding of the needs of your partner and how to help them meet those needs. Youโll have a better sex life, and more.
The majority of my readers are men, so I often speak directly to them. With that being said, I believe that these concepts can be helpful to anyone in an intimate partnership.
Thereโs no order to these so I encourage you to read whatever sounds most applicable to your relationship right now.
Thereโs no โIโ in team
Taking space is often viewed as selfish and harmful to relationships. It leads to people, usually the man, feeling smothered, resentful and overwhelmed. This article explores the idea that space and togetherness are two sacred polarities in relationships. Like an inhale and exhale, both are vital, and neither is more important than the other. Whether you need more space or more intimacy, it closes with thoughts on how to get more of what you want.
Happy Wife Happy Life
In some ways, when one partner is happy the other is happier. What this saying usually insinuates is that the husband should appease his wife by any means necessary to avoid conflict. The shadow of this is that the means often involve the husband sacrificing his deep values. This leads to lowered self-esteem, resentment, and disconnection. In this article I offer an alternative way to operate that leads to more flow and love in your relationship and higher self-esteem for you.
Sex should be spontaneous
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Fighting is bad
(Coming soon)
Relationships are all about sacrifice/compromise
(Coming soon)
Everything should be fair
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Sex is just for the man (or person with the higher sex drive)
(Coming soon)